How to Elope with Family or Friends
Let’s explore this in a little more detail!
Why Elope With Family?
I have often mentioned that one of the main reasons why couples choose elopement is to avoid family politics. So it might seem strange to now be encouraging inviting family members along. However, one of the best things about eloping is doing it your own way and for some people, family is very important. Now more than ever as we ride out the COVID-19 pandemic, people are holding loved ones a little bit tighter. Some couples feel very strongly about having their parents witness their marriage and those are the ones who will choose to elope with family. Others might not have that same familial bond, but maybe they would like to elope with friends instead. It really is down to personal preference.
Can My Dad Walk Me Down The Aisle?
One big question that comes up when I am helping couples elope is whether it is okay to have a dad, step-dad, or some other father figure walk the bride down the aisle? It is one of the big wedding traditions that a lot of brides do not want to let go of! The answer is of course you can! Depending on your venue you might not have a traditional ‘aisle’ to walk down but that doesn’t mean you cannot have your own twist on the tradition. Dad can walk you into the room or outdoor area where you will exchange vows and it will be a wonderful memory for you both!
IF I Elope With Family Is It Still Considered Eloping?
A lot of people are still stuck on the old-fashioned definition of eloping and feel like inviting family along moves their celebration out of the elopement category! However, many vendors offer elopement packages for up to 12 guests, so it is absolutely possible to elope with family. If it makes you feel more comfortable you can call it a micro wedding. It doesn’t really matter one way or the other. What is important is having the wedding you want, surrounded by the people who matter most!